The Fine Line

There is this song that goings "We've been friends for long time,  Very good friend of mine, Love you like you were mine, But respect the friend line" Man I loved this song the second I heard it man. See if you know me on a personal level I have a lot of female friends to say the least. Like I love women I love all their styles their voices their bodies and I have a respect for these creatures and not to be bias but got a little extra respect for the real pretty ones. The song talks about three different friendship and how when girls and guys are really good friends there is a attraction cause you end up becoming closer then two people of the same sex could become.

 

I am a strong believer that if you have a real close female friend hold that real close cause it really is special. I have a few good female friends. My friend Monique aka the original Mo mo is one my real closes friend like we met on the school bus and have been friends for long time now. Our friendship has a lot of success built around Mo mo like she hits me up more then most people especially in the morning like if anyone ask what happens in your daily morning routine. Mo mo leaving me a text when I wake up is a for sure thing. 

Then I have my friend Jazz. We became friends because I dated her best female friend and Jazz ended up telling me the truth about her friend before I got to comfortable and from there on besides a little break when she switch schools she has kept me pretty posted about her life. Jazz is crazy like if you erase some of her weird habits. Thats a freak to take home. But honestly thats one girl I love to get  text or call from she is always up to something or got something exciting coming out her mouth she lives life to her own enjoyment.

Now all good things come in threes or is it bad things whatever it is. Oanh aka doll face aka rice aka yellow aka heart breaker aka cat lady aka hoe hound aka etc. I have known her for the least amount of time but I love that girl the most. I hated her when I first met her when we got put in groups together but I think what makes Oanh stand out more to me is her attitude. Like now that I have gotten to know her Oanh all together is pretty crazy. But I really enjoy hanging around people who are different from me and Oanh is pretty different but her mom boost her up in my book love that mom. 

Anyway the reason for this blog was just to say if you have a really close female friend or if your friends with a girl. You need to make a line for yourself or for those guys that try to become friends so you can get a girl after your close if you fit in this category your friendship is lost from the start. I mean I do believe any long term relationship should have a strong friendship behind it. My longest relationship was based on a good friendship but I didn't plan on it. But I don't think anyone should go into a friendship in hopes to date the girl just cause you act a little fake from the beginning, you have a different drive then just getting to know someone. But honestly forget that if I look at myself all my real good friends male or female were random like if I ask myself back then after I met each person if I thought I would become good friends with this or that person I would of said no LOL

You Don't Know My Name LOl

Okay so I was on the phone this weekend and she was singing a bunch of random songs and we played this little radio game where she would sing parts of different songs that I would say the name too. Not saying she is amazing singer cough cough but it was cute but like I was listening to her do her Alicia Keys songs and man Keys can write some beautiful music. Like I was listening to her sing trying to catch her mess up on Key's lyrics but she was on point and then it clicked in my head 'like wow Alicia Keys wrote some bomb lyrics' and I can't believe I'm just now realizing this while listening to someone else sing her song. So I did what every music lover does go online and re listen to her old songs.

Alicia Keys forgive me for forgetting how raw you are. If you are not a fan go get this girls CD'S or if you haven't heard her music in a while go re discover her music again.

Like I remember when my dad first got her first album and I would listen to it in his car. Like back then I didn't really listen to her words. Like when I re listen to it like I actually pay attention to her lyrics

So I was forced to listen to a the lyrics of "woman's worth" today in the car wash, i didn't say it in the car but like that's how I feel anyone with a relationship should treat their girl or guy like their worth more then you can offer and strive to please them the best you can. But more then just in relationships all women should be treated like that from my stand point at least.

LOVE Keys

MANifest Your Destiny

So a while back right before I started college my dad gave me a book titled " a Letter to a Young Brother" subtitle "MANifest Your Destiny" by Hill Harper. The book is mainly like an ongoing conversation between Hill Harper and this young kid or kids through a year or so period and it goes over the young man's struggles and changes and Hill Harper gives advice to the maturing young guy. My dad had given me the book because I was 18 and becoming my own man and he felt with factors like my Love Life, Friendships, School, Work and so on which are all talked about in the book would really help me. I will admit I read the book and the first chapter really drew me in. Like Hill Harper talked about a few things that someone in my stage of life are concerned with.

How much money I wanted to make, deciding if a higher education was really the path for me, Understanding the flaws of relationships, lusting for women, Being myself, BlAH BlaH.

Now I'm not saying the book is one of those live your life like this books and your days on this earth will be amazing not at all its more of a look this is what I did take what you want from it. One of the things Hill Harper stresses in the book is to take risk do things out of character try new things cause how many of us still don't know what we want out of life or dwell on hidden passions we never went for. I have to admit when your life is filled with new things doesn't even have to be a lot just something out of your normal routine life becomes enjoyable it becomes exciting you forget about so many of life's problem or annoying features.

The Journey to becoming who I will be 10 years down the road determines so much of how I will treat people, act in situations, and handle life. This book was really a eye opener cause we all know those 20, 30 and sometimes 40 years old guys that never became a Man and are stuck playing the same cards hanging with same people and taking the same fool like stance. Just like Hill Harper says it might be easier to close your eyes and ears and act like your passing time. But you not. Life is as always moving and it is our personal duty to ourselves to take advantage of it all. Young Millionaire in the making Remember that forget that actually I AIM HIGH Billions Boys and Girls LOL

The Slums Got Millions

Have you seen the movie Slumdog Millionaire if you haven't find a tall building and jump off man. Honestly the best movie I've watched this year. I wasn't going to see it at first but my friend Andy got me to go so theses were my before and after thoughts.

(before thoughts) 

 Indian movie, is more then likely have one of those dance parts in the end, gonna be a love story and its gonna be boring. Gonna waste 2 hours and more of my life. I will more then likely sleep. Never again go to movies with Andy. 

(after thoughts) 

DAMN once again DAMN, Movie was crazy exciting, Yes it had the dance at the end, yes it had a love story but that had to be the most action pack love story I've seen. It was raw like the movie was shoot in the slums, it caught a lifestyle, it had me dead silent, I hardly blinked, It had guns,  It had a hot Indian girl all together a masterpiece man. 

If you are a fan of City of God or Kite Runner or even a Dark Knight fan you will love this movie hands down I will be honest the story is just crazy.

 

SpiffBox.com The new addiction

So I'm involved in a site called spiffbox.com and I have to admit my resume just jumped another two steps. Okay so what is spiffbox.com. 1. its a new social website 2. Its a private site so no creepers (quote from doll face) 3. Aymen's new personal project 4. You need to join. So there are two gentlemen who are key players Chris and Dave both New York born both older guys both college students both have mad experience when it comes to business both can teach me a few ropes cause I have to admit Smart east coast brothers. I like to thank my friend hamza also cause he did introduce me and allow me to get my ideas out to folk that would listen and got pockets for spending to make more money. Okay so how can you join the experience well its private so if your not a part already to bad

Crow Tattoo's Review

         This guy is my artist

 So I got my first tattoo during the summer time July something at Hot Rod and hey I'm not gonna hate on Hot Rod wasn't their fault but the tattoo that I got wasn't exactly completely something that ended up being a mark of forever lasting commitment if you know what I mean so of course I could either A. Get it laser remove costing me mad bUUKUU money or  B. Get the tattoo fixed, covered up, just something over it. I went with B. Now I will post a picture of my tattoo sometime buts its of lips on my chest and I still think the idea was tight (cough cough Oanh suggested it). So I went parlor to parlor having people tell me they couldn't adjust it because of the color or some nonsense bull that Trashy tattoo artist with no skill come up with. So on my way to my favorite Orient food shop a kid passed a fl yer out to me. I went online checked Crows art out on their myspace and damn they had a guy that did tight cover up work. So i went down to the shop and showed off the tattoo and ask if they could adjust it. The owner of the shop who does mainly cover ups art whose name is either Mike or Jason but the guy said he could do it. I came in the next day and my tattoo looks better then it did originally like I swear it looks bomb darker and more intense honestly love it. I have recommended several people and they have all come out loving the Crows teams work. Check if you are looking for a tattoo go to Crows, they had this movie name Boondocks Saints on while I was getting tatted serious one of my favorite movies now  was that parlor fate yes. Seriously greatest tat shop in Arizona. CROWS TATTOO FOREVER 

Number 520-207-9125 set an appointment

Location

335 East 8th Street

Tucson, Arizona 85716

Side Note if you have a tattoo tell me about how the first one went for you in a comment THANKS YOU 

Aymen B. D

Moving on OUt

Okay moving out isn't as big as the world makes it out to be .. at least when you're only moving out an hour away. So I've moved out my parent's house for college into a dorm beginning of 2008 semester. At first I was going to move out with my friends Fritz into an apartment but didn't happen so I got hooked up with a dorm a connection I received from the 360 club which I never fully joined. But I don't know how much everyone else paid but I paid $666.23 a month for my single dorm in La Paz I don't know if its because it was a single or just cause it was in La Paz but still way to much matter fact for anyone moving into a dorm, move in to one of older dorm building or a undecided major dorm you'll have more fun it's cheaper. Big note have a roommate living by yourself gets boring and you end up leaving your room messy. Okay so I moved out the dorm beginning  of the next semester and I live in an apartment mile away from campus, I have a roommate, free parking, a closet as big as my old dorm and biggest part is I pay $250.00 a month can you say big difference LOL. Honestly already better

MY TIPS FOR MOVING OUT

1. Expenses school is already expenses don't spend to much money unless its the best for your money

2. Have a roommate its not as creepy laughing with a stranger as laughing by yourself

3. Location move where you can get to bus stops, school whatever whereever

4. Parking make sure you know where your parking if you have a car, I racked up 7 tickets

5. If your moving a hour away don't go home alot unless you u have a grandma that cooks like Rachel Ray

6. Bring a cooler with you cause if your moving into the dorm the freezer is like a shoebox for one shoe

7. Here's a big one don't leave frozen food out that is just not a smell or poison you want to try.

8. If your moving into a studio apartment its just like a dorm if you have a roommate just bigger

9. Last advice hmm don't spend a lot of time where ever you live honestly just sleep there get out and enjoy the area especially if your in college study anywhere but your room, if your in an apartment still spend the minimum amount of time there 

If you moved or moving out of state I just want to say you're a G cause if I'm having this much fun a hour away I can you imagine the rush, I regret I didn't go out of state somewhere new

AYMEN B D 

Who Am I You Tell Me

Okay Since this is my first personal Blog I decided to just have a whole thing based on if you know me or know anything bout me to write something down about me as comment and thats the Blog, But get ready your bout to hear a lot from me